My fiancé loves routine and I adventure. I love thinking of new date ideas that we have never done before, something different, fun, and unique. My fiancé, while a creature of habit, he is always up for any crazy ideas that I throw his way! One thing we both do love are movies, and thats when our inspiration came for our next date night.
In the movie, there is a group of friends that have a deal where one of them has an activity in mind that only that person knows and no matter how bizarre that activity is, nobody is allowed to say no to it. It was such a fun movie and the group became so much closer because some of these activities were difficult experiences they went through together, like skydiving.
It was my fiancé's turn to go first to pick an activity. The morning started early and we drove for a couple of hours till we reached the woods. I was very confused at first until I realized we were at an outdoor obstacle course. Although this isn't sky diving, this was scary for someone who has an insane fear of heights. Me, I have an insane fear of heights and here I stood where I had promised I would do anything, no questions. The entire time I was terrified and he helped me through the whole course. I have to say I felt SO PROUD of myself after accomplishing it and cannot believe how supportive he was the entire time, just to help me get past my fear.
I hope this inspires you to do a surprise no take back activity together or just something that scares you :) because with no doubt it will make your relationship stronger!